Over the past two years, I’ve had the honor to escort far too many of our nation’s finest to their final resting place with the SE Texas PGR. I’ve learned a lot about the men and women, and their families, that willingly stand in the gap to preserve and protect our freedoms. While all of these missions have a special place in my heart, one stands out for many reasons.

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Pfc. Nathaniel A. Given was killed in action on December 27, 2006, by an improvised explosive device in Jumbalatiyah, Iraq while conducting dismounted patrol. From all accounts, Nathan was first and foremost a person that cared about others. His father related to me how Nathan would accompany him to visit the kids at Shriners Hospital in Galveston.

I have been a Shriner at El Mina Shrine for the past 7 years. Nathan has always been by my side along with his little brother Emery doing everything they can to help me with the children at El Mina Shrine Burns Hospital, they never had to they just enjoyed working with the kids as I do.

In an interview with the Galveston Daily News , Nathan’s father recalled a conversation with his son about their shared bulk.

Nathan’s 6-foot, 4-inch frame proved useful for the Army’s needs, which were not altogether to his own liking.
“He would complain to me: ‘Dad, how come you made me so big? They make me carry the big weapons,’” Scott Given said.
That big frame also left a mark at the family home. During a visit home before heading to Iraq, Nathan attempted to hop the fence in the backyard. Instead, he bent the frame.

Nathan’s father, Scott, also shared with me an email from Nathan’s First Sergeant, Aldo E. Galeana that talked about Nathan’s growth as a soldier. It also speaks of the bond that soldiers have for each other and a remarkable display of humanity on the battlefield.

As the senior sergeant of the company it is my job to make sure the Soldiers are trained and ready for combat. When your son arrived in the unit, I was the one that went to pick him up from the Battalion Headquarters. All the new Soldiers arrived there. When I arrived there, I started yelling like all first sergeants do. He looked a little nervous and a little scared. After about 5 months or so he started to do pretty good, nothing special or extraordinary. You know when we are in garrison the soldiers that talk a lot of trash are usually the ones that are timid in combat. Well sir, your son was not timid in combat whatsoever. When we arrived in Kuwait for a little bit of training and acclimatization, your son’s platoon sergeant used to come up to me and tell me that he was starting to see a lot of changes in your son, good changes. He used to clean his weapon without any one telling him to do it, squaring away his gear, squaring himself away, by studying his equipment capabilities. When we arrived in Iraq, you could tell your son was coming on his own. What I mean by that is that he was doing excellent. Every time his platoon got hit by an IED or enemy fire, he pulled security and scanned his sectors of fire. This might not seem like very important to other people, but for us in the Infantry it is. He scanned his sector and kept at the ready. His platoon sergeant was very impressed by him, he was happy he had a Soldier that he did not had to worry about. Your son always had a good attitude. He was always happy, and was well liked in his platoon. He had the respect of his peers, and his leaders had confidence in him. I do not know how much he told you about the situation over here, but it is pretty bad. We are in a very bad sector. Your son handled himself pretty good in combat. He was brave and strong. He received a coin from a 2 star general, which are very rare. His platoon nominated him to get it. He was ahead of his peers, and I was about to promote him to E-4.

When your son passed away, the platoon was conducting a dismounted patrol. They got hit with a dismounted IED that was pretty big. Your son and sergeant Messer were knocked out immediately. He did not suffer, and he did not pass away alone and in pain. I was the one that went to pick them up, and brought them to the medics here in our patrol base. I was in there with the medics when your son passed away. Mr. Given I am of the Christian faith, and I knew this boy lying in the stretcher in front of me, was somebody’s son. I hope you do not mind me telling you this. I gave your son a kiss on the forehead and said a prayer right then and there to guide him to heaven and God. I assure you, that your son did not suffer. He was unconscious all the time. I just wanted to tell you that your boy was a brave MAN here with us. He did his job well, fought well, took care of his duties, and was a trusted Infantry Soldier. I am not writing this letter to you, because I want forgiveness. I have been in the Infantry for over 20 years, and been in Iraq 4 times already. I am telling you this because it is the truth and I wanted to tell you a little about your son. Please forgive me if I am writing this letter out of place, it is not my intention. I am attaching a couple of pictures of the memorial wall we have for the 2 Infantrymen that passed away that day. We look at it every day, and we do not forget about your son and SGT Messer at all.

A tender kiss on the forehead from the rough and tumble First Sergeant to guide him home. Thank you Father for men like Pfc. Nathan Given and First Sgt. Aldo Galeana.

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A wall in the barracks to remember Pfc. Given and Sgt. Messer.
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From left: The platoon’s Iraqi interpreter, Nathan, Lares and Messer. The interpreter was wounded in the attack, Nathan and Sgt. Messer were KIA.

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A traditional Soldier’s Cross.

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Taps being played at Nathan’s funeral.

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The skies were dark and gloomy as I rode up to the gathering site for the funeral of this young soldier. Unlike the previous day, there were no crowds lining the streets of the small towns on Hwy 6. There was just business as usual as time did as time does, marching steadily forward.

The gathering of PGR riders was smaller, perhaps from the inclement weather, perhaps from the fatigue of the prior day's escort, perhaps from the sheer exhaustion that comes with tears, both tears of grief and of joy.

But smaller doesn't mean insignificant. There were 18 flag bikes and 50 or so non-flags, three trikes and a host of PGR members in cages. Easily over 100 ordinary, everyday Americans took time from their lives to honor the life cut short, a promising life, a life that was fully lived in only 26 years on this earth. Men and women of all colors, all faiths, all creeds with a single common purpose.

The PGR coordinators did a superb job for this mission. We staged at Coles Antique Village & Flea Market on Hwy 35. The owner, Bob Lewis, had arranged for restroom facilities for us and provided very tasty barbecue sandwiches for the entire group. It's awesome to see these types of contributions in honor of our military.

As we made the short trip to the funeral home, the skies held their tears within the dark clouds. People stopped and stared at the procession of loud pipes and American flags thundering down the road.

Our flag lines were set so that each and every person that attended the funeral walked through them. These displays immediately set the mood and cause people to truly reflect, perhaps for the first time, on why they were there. Not for a man that died of disease, accident, or at the end of a long life. They were there to honor a man that gave his life for our freedom.

The funeral home was overflowing with attendees, entire families spilling out into the hallways. After the funeral started, we took a break and waited for the military honors ceremony. The funeral itself lasted about two hours. When the time came for the military to honor this young man, we gathered our lines again and formed a U around a tent set up in the parking lot for the family. 

The honor guard then carried 1st Lt. Timothy Cunningham from the chapel to the tent as members stood in salute, military with the slow draw to the cap, non-military with hands held over their hearts. 

As always, we left a break in the line so that the family had an unobstructed view of the 21 gun salute and the bugler as he played the long, slow, mournful notes of Taps. Flags, medals and plaques were presented to the family as a lasting reminder of both their loss and the reason for it.

If there is any one memory that I will take from this funeral, it was the moment when the clouds could no longer hold their tears. As the bugler played the last note. the clouds let loose and the heavens cried. During this drenching, no one ran, no one sought shelter. The PGR stood silently, flags popping, raindrops joining the tears streaming down our faces.

One other group didn't move either. A group of men, I think the Singing Men of Texas, were fully exposed in the elements in full dress suits. They too stood silently, the tears of heaven soaking their song sheets, touching their hearts.

After the heavens cried, these men moved up and sang a final song of farewell. It was truly touching.

 

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Wow. What an incredible escort home for this fallen soldier. Galveston County LEO's always do a fantastic job of showing our soldiers respect. This time they combined with Brazoria County LEO's and police from all of the small cities from Galveston Island up Hwy 6 to Hwy 35 to Beltway 8.

These missions are always filled with both sadness and joy. Sadness when you look in to the eyes of family members grieving for their loved ones. Joy knowing that America isn't totally lost and is still producing outstanding young men and women.

As you can see from his mom's testimony, Tim was a Christian man, as was his family. Solid, mature Christians do not fear death and you can see the difference at the funerals. There is grief yes, but not too much. There is joy, yes, but not too much. A lot of smiles from memories past and a lot of smiles from the sure and certain knowledge that they will meet again.

His mom is obviously a very strong believer. She took the time to walk down our flag line and should every single members hand. As did her daughters and 1st Lt. Cunningham's wife, Amber. With tears in their eyes, they thanked us with strong, firm grips.

As we wound our way through all of the small towns, people lined the streets to welcome this man home and to honor his service. Bayou Vista, Hitchcock, Sante Fe, Arcola, Algoa, Alvin and Pearland. Santa Fe had their entire high school student body lining the street. Business after business stopped the daily grind of commerce and joined us on the street. Cars pulled off the road, men and women of all ages standing in honor of Tim's service. A VFW hall had it's members lining the streets, men from WWII, Korea, Vietnam, Grenada, Afghanistan, Iraq and all the time in between honoring this young man's life.

It was an honor today to escort this fine man home. His young wife and daughter need our prayers as they struggle without a husband and father. But I am confident that their faith will see them through because I was witness today to an entire family that knows that Christ is Lord of all.

 

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His mother's recollection of her son:

Tim graduated from Alvin High school then received a NROTC scholarship to attend Texas A&M. After attending for a year, Tim realized he could better achieve his personal goals if he were to attend West Point. So he started the process, received his appointment, and started at West Point the year just after his older brother, John David, graduated.

While at West Point, Tim applied himself fully to his studies and military activities, but one of the most important activities to him was his involvement with Cadet Chapel Sunday School and Genesis. Tim felt it was important to give back to the teachers at the school, so he worked with their children in Sunday school every Sunday. Boy did he love those kids!

After Tim graduated from West Point with a degree in Nuclear Engineering, he and Sam were married immediately. And just as quickly, they discovered that they were pregnant. A year ago last March, just after Tim finished Ranger school, little Abigail came into all of our lives. Abby’s a year old now and certainly has her dad’s exuberance for life and love for people. After he graduated from Ranger school, Tim, Samantha and Abby moved to Ft. Campbell to serve with 101st Airborne, right along side his older brother, also a part of 101st Airborne.

If I could sum up Tim’s life, it would be that he lived all out. He was all out as a runner, all out as an athlete, all out as a student, all out as a son, all out as a brother, all out as follower of Christ, all out as a friend, all out as a husband, all out as a father, and all out as a soldier. He lived and died all out for others.

Sounds like a great guy. I'll be leaving shortly to escort his body to the funeral home.

Hundreds of active duty Air Force personnel joined the SE Texas Patriot Guard riders today to honor Spc. Joshua Molina as his body arrived at Ellington Field. The procession stretched over a mile long as it wound its way around Houston’s 610 Loop to Bellaire’s Earthman Funeral Home.

Spc. Molina was KIA on Thursday, March 27th when an IED exploded near his vehicle. He graduated from Elsik High School in the Alief ISD after attending Bellaire High and being a member of the ROTC. He planned to attend college and become a Border Patrol or FBI agent after his military service ended.

By all accounts, he was full of life and was the life of the party.

Comrades remembered Molina, 20, as an expert saw-gunner and gifted comedian who could always get his audience to smile, Capt. Emmanuel Sioson, 1st Squadron’s rear detachment commander, said.

“Josh was a great story teller. His stories would take five to 10 minutes to reach a punch line,” he said.

He was fulfilling a lifelong dream when he enlisted in the Army.

He was remembered as the man who liked to have fun and as someone who was always smiling. His brother said he wanted to be in the military since he was a child.

“Since he was a little kid he liked to play war and guns and we would just play around. He loved the military, especially the U.S. Army,” said Molina.

In January, he came back to Houston and visited his family and friends. His sister recounts her last visit with him.

“I was going to get up and give him a hug and he said, ‘No, just stay there. I’ll see you again,’ ” remembered Fredrickson, 27. “I told him, ‘Don’t be a hero. Just do what you have to do and come back safe.’ ”

That was the last time she saw him alive.

She typed this message in her grief and posted a picture of herself with her brother.

On behalf of my family I would like to thank everyone for their lovely messages and for having us in your thoughts and prayers, we are grateful and I’m sure that so is my brother, once again thank you.

to my brother Joshua(my chachi) aka Big Mo I love you, I miss you, I’m proud of you and we will see each other again, You are my HERO.

You are ours too, Spc. Molina. RIP.

 

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